Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
Love gives meaning to our lives as do friendship, or art or faith in God. These are factors of true happiness, of inner peace, of feelings of harmony, allowing meaning to our existence.
But there is the other side. There is the cruelty of life, the pain, the evil, not to talk of death. They are the hidden tigers, ambushed and ready to attack the imprudent, to use an image present in the Buddhist Scriptures.
Is between these pendulums - the positive, the one that gives happiness and meaning, and the negative - that our lives are lived. And when we meditate about all that, we arrive at a diverse and disagreeing set of thoughts about the meaning and purpose of life.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
Inspiration , Conversation , Information , a destination and Celebration
Favorite Songs:
i like all kind of music
Favorite Movies:
the boondock saints , avatar , twilight
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
Crazy fun........I broke into a friends apartment, took all her stuff, Big floor pillows and just stuff, then after she had called police and made a report,I invited her to my place.....she fainted !
Hobbies:
i love belly dancing
Talents:
good dancer
Perfect Mate:
As much as I would love to say #1, myself, in good conscience I cannot. The reason is because, if we're talking about who am I going to marry, none of these choices guarantee the perfect husband. The reason is because these are qualities that anyone (theoretically) can have. But in no way do they promise a mate that one would want to live with for their entire lives.
Here's the case, though:
A beautiful person can be either kind or mean. A smart person can be either humble or a snob. A powerful person can use his strength to protect and assist, or to oppress. All of a sudden, your treasured prize comes with a gamble. And if you are the sort of person who holds to the value of marriage is forever, then that suddenly because a toss-up of Heaven on Earth...or Hell.
But would you find it shocking that the Bible already noted the problem with this line of thinking - meaning, the questions - 2000 years ago? It gets to the core of the issue. To the core of the heart.
If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels [intelligence], but didn't love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
If I had the gift of prophecy [intelligence], and if I understood all of God's secret plans and possessed all knowledge [intelligence/power], and if I had such faith that I could move mountains [power], but didn't love others, I would be nothing.
If I gave everything I have to the poor [wealth] and even sacrificed my body [beauty], I could boast about it; but if I didn't love others, I would have gained nothing.
1 Corinthians 13:1-3
Quite simply, the question posed is a superficial one. That is not to say that there is anything wrong with being very beautiful, incredibly powerful, profoundly intelligent, or filthy rich (I do recommend bathing every now and then, though), but if these are the qualities by which we are going to measure the potential 'perfect mate', then while our chances are 50/50 - seemingly decent odds in some circles - that is a pretty dangerous risk when we're using our remaining days on earth as the commodity with which we bet while picking a mate.
I propose an alternate criteria for searching for a mate: be the one you want to marry.
'Do to others what you would like them to do to you.'
Jesus, Luke 6:31, boldface mine
The point here is that if you want to be treated well, you ought to be willing to treat others with kindness, too! Jesus doesn't guarantee that we will be treated as we treat others (and if you're being mean to others, then that's a very good thing), but if we want kindness, then ought to give kindness. If we want respect, then we ought to be willing to give respect. If we want compassion, then we ought to suffer for the sake of others.
This is both a matter of justice - rather, a matter of fairness - and even more so one of good character. What Jesus is saying goes even further in that it can help us to find the person who is truly worth seeking out as our mate. If we are consistently kind to one another, then it will be easy to recognize qualities that are worthwhile and pleasant to have while living the rest of our lives with someone. The gamble is either nearly gone or gone completely!
Beauty can vanish suddenly in a freak accident or fade gradually with age.
Power can be abused and even corrupt a heart if not handled with wisdom and humility. it's like a drug to the weak (interesting contrast, power in the hands of the weak).
Intelligence is limited to what one knows and offers no proof of actual character.
Money can come and go with the economy or is stolen when least expected.
In the movie, 'As Good As It Gets', Jack Nicholson plays a cynical and reclusive romance author who is famed and revered for his powerfully breath-taking portrayals of men who sweep their women off their feet. A fan one day is able to meet up with her adored author and asks him how he able to capture the essence of what a woman wants, or something to that effect.
The author replies: 'I imagine all the silly things women want and take the opposite of my pathetic life and throw them together with flowery words and send it to my publisher. And then women like you gobble it up like it was the kama-sutra of romance.' (I know that's not the exact quote, but it captures the essence of what he said.)
Needless to say, everything that that female fan imagined her favorite author to be was anything but the sort of men he wrote about in his books. She was definitely shocked and crushed.
But love - genuine love - now that's something you can trust in no matter what. That's something you can take a 'gamble' on.
Option #5: The woman who loves the best.
...I'd say that one's the winner.
Perfect Date:
Probably the most superb for your unforgetable date sounds the idea about riding horses in the beach, across the water vawes in the view of sunset on the ocean...if you cant organize all those things keep the idea only about riding horses. Also could be suitable places near the forest or in some empty fields full of flowers.
Your partner will always be impressed by the oldest idea about organizing romantic dinner near the candle lights. It sounds very classical but believe me it is only up to you to make it special find out what he or she doesnt like about food and learn couple of recipes that you can make on your own. This realy wont cause you any problems because there are lots of information about cooking and serving table. If you are a guy make sure that she will come earlier and notice you cooking. It would be even more impressive than already served table.
Everyone likes going to the zoo and it would realy ensure you very romantic trip that you can always choose instead of simple going for a walk. All those animals and nature get people close together and eliminate stress. Such an interesting way of spending time together wont cost you a lot but such an evening will be memorable and pithy.
You would never delude yourself with inviting your date to a museum, ancient places of your town, castles, galeries or some cultural festivals. It even could help to know a lot about your partner, because such places oblige people to talk about peculiar things and shows his/her attitude to the world.
Finally, no matter where you go always use your imagination fly a kite, play hide and seek or paint fight, dance in the rain, draw one another or something.
Turn Ons/Offs:
I'm turned on by the way he smells, the stubble on his jaw, the feel of his hair, and the little crooked smile he gives me when feeling naughty. Also i love arms ones that aren't too muscley or too scrawny- i guess just a bit toned. and also when i say i like he to be in control i mean in a respectful, loving manner were he is in control but is up for suggestions.
OFF:
-The ones who are sarcastic/sarcastic bi*****. i'm sure you know what i'm talking about
-Bad breath/BO
-The ones who constantly complain/moan/nag
-The ones who have low self esteem/the ones who are always trying to fish for compliments
-Dressing provocatively
-Burping in public/out loud, purposely
-The ones who try way too hard to get your attention
-'Tramp stamps'
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