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Meaning of Life:
Everything happen for a reason . What's meant to Be , will find a Way.
What I've learned in life is that no matter how good a person is, sometimes they can hurt you & because of this we must forgive. It takes years to build trust and only seconds to destroy it .. We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change...That circumstances and the environment influence on our lives, but we are the one's responsible for ourselves.. That you have to control your life or they will control you...That sometimes the person you think will hurt you and make you fall...Is instead one of the few who will help you get up...That No matter in how many pieces your heart is broken the world doesn't stop to fix it.May be God wants us to meet all the wrong people first before meeting the right one..
So when we finally meet the right one we are grateful for that gift ..
When the door of happiness closes, another door opens..
but often we look so long at the closed one.. we dont see what was open for us ..
The best kind of a friend is the kind in which you can sit on a porch and walk
Without saying a word & when you leave it feels it was the best conversation you ever had.
Its true we dont know what we have until we find it, but its also true,
we dont know what weve been missing until it arrives..
It only takes a minute to offend someone, an hour to like someone,
a day to love someone, but it takes a life time to forget someone.
Dont look for appearances, they can be deceiving, dont go for wealth even that can fade,
Find someone who makes you smile, because it only takes a smile to make a day better,
find what makes your heart smile..
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much..
that you wish you can take them out of your dream and hug them for real..
Dream what you want, go wherever you want to go.. because you have only one life..
and one change to do the things you want to do ..
The happiest people dont necessarily have the best of everything,
they just make the best of everything that comes their way.
The best future is based on the forgotten past..
You cant go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches." Paulo Coelho
****The very purpose of our life is happiness, which is sustained by hope. We have no guarantee about the future, but we exist in the hope of something better. Hope means keeping going, thinking, I can do this. It brings inner strength, self-confidence, the ability to do what you do honestly, truthfully and transparently.
****Life is not about finding yourself, but about creating yourself. Who do you want to be?
****Life is about learning to love. Its about loving your self. Its about loving your family and friends, And perhaps most importantly, loving all people and everything in this Universe. To open your heart and loving your enemies. and to love all unconditionally. All of that is inside each and every human being.
*****Life is not measured by how much money we make, how many things we own, how much we give away, or how often we pray...
it is measured by how many hearts we touch.
Keep people in your life that truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, inspire you, enhance you, and make you happy.If you have people in your life who do none of the above , let them go !
********Realize your worth, and never settle for less than you deserve !!!********
***To all the wonderful women out there: be proud of who you are, be proud of your achievements, the successes you've reached, the struggles you've conquered, be proud on how far you've come in life despite all the nay-sayers, honor the talents in you, the kindness that you show to all who come to you, your love and compassion that makes the world a better place.
You make a difference, you are valuable, you are special, you are one-of-a-kind, there never was nor ever will be another one of you. You got your knowledge and wisdom through hard work and study, so never downgrade your intellect for any reason, or belittle yourself in order to put someone else on a pedestal.
***You deserve the best, you deserved to be honored, to be cherished, to be respected for all that you are, and all that you represent with yourself, and your life, so surround yourself only with those who see all that in you, and let go of anyone who sees only what they want to see.
Never allow yourself be an option in someone else's life, to be an option, a weekend plan, or a second choice, because being a priority is the only place that belongs to you, and you alone.
***Acknowledge and always remember your true worth, and NEVER let ANYONE treat you any less than that.
Because you are a woman you have an inherent dignity, you are valuable, you're worthy of fidelity, you are deserving of true love and respect, and the honor of being the only one in another's life, never forget that, and never settle for any less than that. ..
***Life is short, don't waste time worrying about what people think of you ..Hold on to the ones that care, in the end they will be the only ones there.
*** Paradox of Our Times***
Today, we have bigger houses and smaller families ;
More conveniences, but less time;
We have more degrees, but less common sense;
More knowledge , but less judgement.
We have more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness.
We spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast,
Get to angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired
Read too little, watch TV too often, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too little and lie too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life
We've added years to life, not life to years.
We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers;
Wider freeways , but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.
We've been all the way to the moon and back,
But have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor.
We've conquered outer space, but not inner space.
We've split the atom, but not our prejudice;
We write more, but learn less; plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait;
We have higher incomes, but lower morals.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies,
but have less communication..
We are long on quantity, but short on quality.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men and short character;
Steep profits and shallow relationships.
More leisure and less fun ; More kinds of food, but less nutrition;
Two incomes, but more divorce ; Fancier houses, but broken homes.
***This is the paradox of our times today.***
That's why I propose, that as of today, you do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a special occasion.
Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch and
admire the view without paying attention to your needs
Spend more time with your family and friends, eat your favorite foods,
and visit the places you love.
Life is a chain of moment of enjoyment, not only about survival.
Use your crystal goblets.
Do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.
Remove from your vocabulary phrases like 'one of these days' and 'someday'.
Let's write that letter we thought of writing 'one of these days'.
Let's tell our families and friends how much we love them.
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life.
Every day, every hour, and every minute is special.
And you don't know if it will be your last.
******Everything happens for a reason ******
*** Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there
They Serve some short of purpose , teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become..
You never know who these people might be ..your roommate, your neighbor , professor , long lost friend , your lover ,
Or even a complete stranger who , when you lock eyes with them , you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes , things happen to you and at the end of the time they seem horrible , painful and unfair
But in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential , strength , will power of heart.
*** Everything happens for a reason .. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck.
Illness , injury , love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul.
Without these small tests , if they be events , illnesses or relationships , life would be like a smooth paved , straight , flat road to nowhere.
Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
***The people you meet who affect your life and your successes and downfalls you experience ,they are the ones who create who you are .
***Even the bad experience can be learned from Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones
***If someone hurts you , betrays you or breaks your heart forgive them for they have helped you to learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
***If someone loves you , love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them ..
***Make every day count...Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you can possibly can , for you may never be able to experience it again.
***Talk to people you have never talked before , and actually listen them , let yourself fall in love , break free and set your sights high
***You can make of your life anything you wish..Create your own life and then go out and live it.
***We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. If what we are now has been the result of our own past actions, it certainly follows that whatever we wish to be in future can be produced by our present actions so we have to know how to act.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
***I have been thru a lot in my life ...Yet , i regret nothing...I saw all the faces of Life..the good ones and the bad ones.. I'm sure that I can live my life as long as i have my FAMILY near,my Friends , Love, Self-Confidence , Respect, Kindness ,Integrity and the man who will have my heart is right beside me ...i guess is a wonderfull feeling to wake up the morning and to see the face of The One you love...
***Having all those values , those thoughts ,gives me the power to solve all the challenges that life provides.
****10 GOLDEN RULES TO LEAD MY LIFE:****
**1** Be respectful, responsible and honest. Treat others the way you want others to treat you.
**2** Be kind, understanding and friendly.
**3** Avoid excesses; keep work-love-play in balance; compromise; live within your means.
**4** Learn from your mistakes, admit when you are ignorant, keep questioning.
**5** Be self-confident, optimistic and persevere against adversity.
**6** Show moral leadership, peacemaking, and independence.
**7** Plan ahead; show caution; don't be impulsive, reckless or promiscuous.
**8** Show forgiveness, trust, and gratitude.
**9** Be possitive ,cooperative, generous and humble.
**10** Everything you do in your life , do it WITH LOVE, From LOVE and FOR LOVE ...
********RULES TO GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP********
-1-Don't look for a man to solve your problems , find a man that doesn't let you face them alone.
-2- Dont be the woman who needs a man .Be the woman a man needs.
-3- Life is to short and Love is to precious to settle for anyone who treats you anything less than AMAZING.
-4- When you are easy to get , you are easy to forget .
-5- Dont sit around waiting for someone to notice you .Get out there and show them what they're missing out !
-6- A man who treats his woman like a princess is proof that he has been raised by a queen.
-7- Dont expect someone to stay sweet forever , because even the sweetest candy has an expiration date.
-8- Actions speaks louder than words .If you arent ready to act then shut the hell up.
-9- When you really matter to someone , that person will always make time for you..No excuses , no lies , no broken promises.
-10- Never let the people who do so little for you , to control so much of your feelings and emotions
-11- Ladies if more of us sat down and acted like ladies , more guys would stand up and act like gentlemen.
-12- Be with someone who promise you nothing , but tries to give you everything they have.
-13- A smart lady would rather choose to be single than to be lied to , cheated on and disrespected.
-1- If you always judge people by their appearances , you'll miss out on meeting and knowing some pretty amazing people.
-2- In a relathionship , honesty and trust must exist . If they don't , there's no point of loving .If you can't be honest , stay single.
-3- There is only one thing you can control in a relationship : YOURSELF
-4- Sometimes , friends are only meant to be friends and nothing more than that.
-5- Girls arent toys . You can't just drop them when you get bored.
-6- Catching the girl of your dreams is NOT an amazing accomplishment.Keeping her by your side is the real accomplishment.
-7- A real man will never stop trying to show a woman how much she means to him , even after he's got her.
-8- If you're lucky enough to have one good person , don't blow it by going after all the bad ones.
-9- Never ever trust a player. Because you'll be broken and they'll be gone to the next one.
-10- Being single doesnt mean nobody wants you.It means taking your time deciding who you want to spend your life with.
-11- A boy will make his girl jealous...A Man will make other people jealous of his girl.
-12- Don't forget to treat all females with the same respect you'd want your daughter to be treated with.
-13- Never lose hope in love .Sometimes you have to kiss many frogs before you find your Princess.
*** The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.Martin Luther King
***Don't confuse my personality with my attitude ...My personality is who I am , my attitude depends on who you are...
***If you're not happy with where you're at in your life right now ,that's fine. But if you're not doing a single thing about it , that's unacceptable.
***It is durring the worst of times in your life that you get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you.
***Never blame anyone in your life.Good people give you happiness.Bad people give you experience.Unkind people give you lesson and the awesome people give you memories.
***Taking your own needs seriously is not selfish.It is a sign of wisdom.You cant care for others unless you care for yourself first.
What I Like To Do For Fun:
***I am aware that i am less than some people prefer me to be,
but most people are unaware that i am so much more than what they see.
" "Stairway To Heaven"
There's a lady who's sure all that glitters is gold
And she's buying a stairway to heaven.
When she gets there she knows, if the stores are all closed
With a word she can get what she came for.
Ooh, ooh, and she's buying a stairway to heaven.
There's a sign on the wall but she wants to be sure
'Cause you know sometimes words have two meanings.
In a tree by the brook, there's a songbird who sings,
Sometimes all of our thoughts are misgiven.
Ooh, it makes me wonder,
Ooh, it makes me wonder.
There's a feeling I get when I look to the west,
And my spirit is crying for leaving.
In my thoughts I have seen rings of smoke through the trees,
And the voices of those who stand looking.
Ooh, it makes me wonder,
Ooh, it really makes me wonder.
And it's whispered that soon, if we all call the tune,
Then the piper will lead us to reason.
And a new day will dawn for those who stand long,
And the forests will echo with laughter.
If there's a bustle in your hedgerow, don't be alarmed now,
It's just a spring clean for the May queen.
Yes, there are two paths you can go by, but in the long run
There's still time to change the road you're on.
And it makes me wonder.
Your head is humming and it won't go, in case you don't know,
The piper's calling you to join him,
Dear lady, can you hear the wind blow, and did you know
Your stairway lies on the whispering wind?
And as we wind on down the road
Our shadows taller than our soul.
There walks a lady we all know
Who shines white light and wants to show
How everything still turns to gold.
And if you listen very hard
The tune will come to you at last.
When all are one and one is all
To be a rock and not to roll.
And she's buying a stairway to heaven. ''
The Difference between a gentleman and a fool
I met many men in my life: from colleges to strangers on the street. Some gentlemen , some rude fools.What is the difference between a gentleman and a fool ?One has class , the other must be born a few more times to gain the class.
A gentleman has style , speaks grammatically correct , not spread a trail of perfume behind him , he knows when to listen , and the only jewel he wears is his hand watch. A fool is rude , speaks to much even when he doesn't have anything to say, praise when it's appropriate , pours a glass of cheap cologne just to be smelled by the neighbour from the other corner of the street and under no circumstances he doesn't know when to listen because he is the navel of the Earth.
A gentleman does not seek perfections from the magazines he is reading , but he is looking for a woman who knows how to love , who accept his faults and weakness , she is beautiful and certainly not vulgar, a woman with class , elegant and powerful. A gentleman knows that a woman can be the partner who can build for a lifetime .
What about the Fool? Well the fool is looking for a woman that meets standards imposed by gossip , preferably the woman doesn't have to be very intelligent , because he has to be in control , he has to "feel like the man" in front of her.
The fool wants a "female trophy" , a woman who is desired by many others like him , but witch nobody else to have access at her but him.
A gentleman does not hide behind the words, he acts. A fool speak continuously and doesn't do much .
A gentleman knows how to be a man: he provides protection, care , hardness and tenderness when you need.A gentleman knows how to seduce a woman she knows how to make her feel a "lady" when they go out together ,and he knows how to give her confidence that she is the woman that he want in his bed.
A Fool always try to show as the "tough man" because he is "elusive" he neglect the woman for the same reason , even more than that he judge her actions whether she doesn't meet his expectations or she Is a nonconformist according his standards, he is proud and never have an explanation for his actions.
A gentleman knows when to give flowers to his woman , while the Fool gives flowers only when he feels guilty for something...
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
Working on it ...Work in Progress :))))
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
Traveling. Doesn't even matter where... just being on the move, sitting in an airport somewhere waiting for my next flight or on a road trip
***I love to make friends
*** Yes, I can count my true friends on my fingers, but I would not mind having more. I have my MFC friends - some are with me almost every night, some stop by when they can. Some are real and some are looking for something they want...each is unique, but special in their own way.One thing my friends all have in common - they respect me for who I am. By taking the time to read my profile, you may be the kind of person who will become one of my friends
The moments in life when you discover who your true friends are, are more than likely going to be the times when something traumatic has happened - like the death of a loved one, when you've hit rock bottom, or when you've taken a risk to do something and reach out to your friends for support.
Today, I can count my true friends on my 5 fingers. There aren't many, but they're true and they're real and they will stick by me through thick and thin.
And, I'd do just about anything for them.
***"Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you dont see it yourself." Edmund Lee
***Stay single until you meet someone who actually compliments your life in a way that makes it better.If not, its not worth it.
***A Gentleman.That special someone who makes me feel like I'm The Center of his Universe.
Because perfect guys don't exist, but theres always one guy that is perfect for Me.
***Intelligent but not arrogant with a very good sense of humour,generous and modest in all the ways honest, willing and able to provide for himself and his family, to respect me for who I am, to accept me unconditionally - all my virtues and all my vices - share my beliefs and my thoughts...to have many things in common with me, but also to complement me, as I will complement him. He must love me,and everything I stand for,he is romantic, passionate, trustful , caring , to have good ethics and manners , to let me find my own answers about him , to not push me into anything without my will. I belive i'm not asking to much ..
He knows who he is and has put time into figuring out what he wants; he's consistent, trustworthy, and isn't constantly battling with a false sense of entitlement.
He is loving, laid back, and successfully executes whatever he puts his mind to.
Financial success and an open mind are attractive traits as well.
I get on well with men who know how to balance a dominant nature with a respectful outlook.
***My perfect date is a romantic cliche:
***On a beach in the moonlight, waves washing gently onto the sand, spanish guitar playing in the background, fire on the sand keeping us warm, with you and me holding each other, watching the dance of the flames, desire building in our bodies until we can stand it no longer...
***Turn ONs: LOVE ! Love is the highest power we possess to be in complete harmony with the law of attraction. The more love we feel the greater our power. The more selfless love we feel, the more unfathomable our power. The law of attraction has been called the law of love, because the law itself is a gift of love to humanity. The more love we feel the greater our power to create a magnificent life of love, joy, and harmony.
***Turn OFFs: I always had a problem to recognize from the first moment a bad man; to read his wickedness in the look, in the expression of his face, in certain gestures. I have never had, in other words, from the very beginning and without reason, the "intuition" of someone's wickedness. It might be this kind of my naivety, steadfast trust in people, in their quality of thinking beings, endowed with spirit, memory, empathy for peers and other living beings.
I'm probably not the only one who wonder...
What are the motives of a villain?
Where does the thirst for power, debauchery, pleasure to torture, humiliate, mock or slander another human being? Hard to give a global answer. There are circumstances in which no science is sufficiently refined to be able to detail and explain the whole spectrum of human ugliness, all the casuistry of service.
I have seen a lot of human behaviour. But I will never give up believing in the discernment of my fellow human in their intelligence and goodness.
Because intelligence without goodness is worth nothing.
And true goodness can not be without discernment.
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
***I demand unconditional love and complete freedom.That is why i am terrible.
*** I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I've become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretence, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that's why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience
Because I am one of the most unique and different person. There is only one person in the world like me I'm sure of it. Behind every person is a story , behind every story is a person. So think before you judge , because judging someone doesn't label who they are , it labels who you are .
I am who I am today because of where I've been. I believe in a "take it or leave it" attitude. I refuse to be something I'm not, or bullshit you out of your tokens. I'm at peace with myself and my words and feelings are true. I don't play with people's emotions, don't even think of playing with mine. I'm very gifted at reading and feeling people, I pick up on a lot more things then I'll ever let you know. I'm very tolerant, understanding and loving but if you act like an ass, you can expect to be told either nicely or not so nicely depending on the situation. I'm very good at deflecting but still, don't ask me my opinion unless you really want it, I may be kind and caring but I'm very observant and direct, I tell it like it is.