You cant wait until life isnt hard anymore before you decide to be happy. I admit im not perfect but I love who I am and where I am at in life. I am 50 years old, I have played lifes game and life has played me. you wanna know who I am ? I will tell you who I am not. I am no ones last minute go to guy when all others are off somewhere else. If you not willing to make my friendship a priority and put the time and effort into it then just move on because I am Neither a door mat, a stepping stone or a upgrade that you can use then throw me away. I am the best friend everyone wishes they had and thats the truth!!

THATS LIFE!

IIll admit, Im a little old-fashioned. when it comes to getting to know people. I like to connect with them intellectually and emotionally first, if the connection and chemistry is good, then I can warm up to physical intimacy fairly quickly. I am fun and flirty and sometimes a little dirty but that is who I am, if people cant handle my big personality I cant help them its who I am. I dont go out of my way to hurt someones ego or cock block their friendship so dont do it to me.

TDont start calling me a friend when its convenient for you to do so. I am no ones half time, down time, spare time or sometimes friend. I a good man, a good person. I am loyal and respectful, I give my best to the people who has earn it. I hold no grudges on past friendships that others have with models but I am also not going to let people disrespect my friendship with that model either and I will not allow a model to disrespect my friendship with her just because others think they hold priority over her just because they think she owe them something. She doesnt owe you shit.

I am a old school gentleman with a street attitude. I earn my respect from people and they in turn earn my loyalty and love. I am a easy guy to get along with once you know that what i give is what I want back in return. If I am giving you my respect, love, loyalty,support and friendship I expect the same in return, its a fairly reasonable request. However dont backstab my friendship for purely finical gains because when I am gone you will want me back.what I give it just not about finical gains, its about how I love, support and respect people so dont burn that bridge because once you do I can never look at you the same way when you had my heart.

This is what I am about, who I am and what I stand for. respect it and I will always respect you.

Heres the only rule you need; If a man loves you, He will do anything he can to keep you around; Anything! If you have men coming in and out of your life and are just going through the motions and just tipping to hold on to his position on your priority friend list. Why put any effort into them? These types of guys just want to test the curves but dont want to pay the toll to drive on the highway.

Every woman deserves to have a partner, a friend, a lover who is proudly willing to say to the whole world: Yeah!! Thats right!! She is my one and only, She is my best friend, she is beautiful, she is my world, she is mine and I am hers! The truth is Alyssahh my friend get use to it. I am not going anywhere!!