Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
The meaning of life is to live. To enjoy life, to learn what you can and be the best person you can be. To find adventure and romance, and to not be too scared to try it all. To care about people and try to help others get through the hard times. To be self-sacrificing for the good of others, and be a hedonist at the same time. Love is the best thing in the world, love of family, friends and lovers. Try it all and don't let fear stop you. Be safe so you can do more.
Or 42. It could always be that.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
1. Mutual Love and consent
2. Creative expression
3. Respect
4. Sexual expression
5. My right to my own body
Favorite Books:
The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, The Prose and Poetic Eddas, 1984 and Animal Farm by George Orwell, Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury, Hitchiker's series by Douglas Adams.
Currently starting to read Ginsberg and Bukowksi. I LOVE poetry!!
I read comic books as well sometimes. My favorites right now are Transmetropolitan and Fables.
What I Like To Do For Fun:
I love knitting, cooking and studying. I spend an amazing amount of time studying sexuality. I just got a house with a backyard, so I'm starting to take up gardening a little. :) Very excited about that!
Favorite Songs:
Favorite song- Pull my Hair by Bright Eyes.
I listen to jazz, blues, indie, folk, punk, ska. My all time favorite singer is Michelle Shocked, and I've actually tried to model my own singing voice a bit like hers. My favorite guitarist is Andres Segovia, but you probably can't tell from hearing my own crappy guitar work! :) Also Billie Holiday, Rilo Kiley, Bright Eyes, Bo Diddly, Iron and Wine, TATU, Goldfinger, and then I have a pretty wide range of stuff no one's ever heard of and I also like a lot of artists I used to play with back in the day.
Favorite Movies:
Favorite Genres: high minded BS, LGBT films, documentaries, z-grade, action schlock, old hollywood, low fantasy, sci-fi and black comedy.
Le Fabuleux destin d'Amlie Poulain, The Royal Tennenbaums, Kill Bill 1 and 2, High Fidelity, Deadly Prey, If these walls could talk 2, Hedwig and the angry inch, Who's Afraid of Virgina Woolf?, Network, Dr. Strangelove or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb, Clerks, The World According to Garp, Office Space, Sean of the Dead, Star Wars (but only the original three), Saved!, Igby Goes Down, Party Monster, Roman Holiday, Waking Life, The Aristocrats, Chatterbox, etc, etc, etc.
I also have a secret love for super clean family friendly and religious themed movies, because I find them HYSTERICAL. Also, my favorite tv show in the whole world is Arrested Development, in case you couldn't tell from my name on here!
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
I almost broke my neck once climbing on a roof trying to escape my boss who wanted me to come in on Saturday. I dressed up as Spiderman, got drunk, ran around a field and stabbed my leg trying to climb over a barbed wire fence. I had sex in a field in front of my friend who was so stoned he was trying to signal UFOs by drawing in the dirt with a stick. I have a million stories and for being 26, I've managed to do a lot of living. That said, the craziest thing I've ever done was probably cleaning my life up and NOT being so crazy any more. Who knew I had that in my crazy little head? :)
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
I'm there now! :) Hell yeah Texas!
Hobbies:
Knitting, cooking, playing guitar/singing/songwriting, making my own BDSM toys, learning to sew, etc. I'm very crafty! I play video games (retro and XBOX), and enjoy pen and paper (I've played two long Star Wars campaigns, hoping to try D&D soon) .
Talents:
I'm a great listener. I've been told I should be a psychiatrist on more than one occasion! I love psychology and philosophy,and I'm actually a pretty fast learner. I pick up musical instruments pretty quick. But I can't read music and just can't wrap my head around piano.
Perfect Mate:
Must be a nerd! I can't stress it enough. Gamers, movie snobs, pencil necked scientists, all good. I love receiving poetry and creative compliments, really, I'll walk around bragging about it for years, even if it's not very good. Verbal affection is very important to me. Intelligence is the sexiest thing in the world. I like a dash of sarcasm and roughness, but I do also require a gentler touch. I'm a sucker for nice guys who just can't get ahead. If I can talk to you, honestly, openly, without fear of condemnation or rejection, you are perfect. And HAS to love sex. I love someone who can speak with me in a very clinical way about sex, but giggles at words like 'penis' and 'butts'. Sex is funny, it's part of it's beauty. As far as looks, my range is ridiculous. I've dated an incredible range of different people, because I'm more attracted to good personalities than looks. Tall, short, large, small, old, young, beards, hairless, scars, all colors of skin and eyes and hair. I love diversity!
Perfect Date:
I'm pretty down to Earth about dating actually. I love movies, talking, coffee, moonlight, rain, creativity. I like playing on playgrounds at 2 AM. Sing for me or write me something and I will swoon. Kiss my hand at the end and watch me try desperately not to jump your bones! Make me wait a little and I'll lose my mind furiously masturbating until I see you again. Don't let me wait too long or I will get pouty!
Turn Ons/Offs:
Turn ons: I love requests. Ask me to do something and I'll see what I can do. I love people who know what they want. I love color, love painting or drawing on my body and dyeing my hair fun colors. I like openness and straight-forwardness. I like politeness and I like perversion. I like someone who is confident, but shyness can also be adorable. Be respectful, because remember, I'm showing you my tits because I want you to see them. I think this is deserving of some respect. I also like toys A LOT, and am a bit kinky.
Turn offs: The biggest for me is probably bigotry. I don't tolerate racism, homophobia and sexism. Joking is one thing, but I'm pretty good at knowing the difference between a joke and when it's real. Heck, even jokes can be harmful so it's best to just not even bother. I don't like people being too bossy with me. You don't tell me to do anything, if I do what you want, it's because I like you and want to do it. NO MEANS NO!!! I am a switch, leaning toward sub, but I also stand up for myself and won't take shit from anyone. No one owns me or my body but me. I don't like drama, and lets just make this place an escape from politics. I want to come here to unwind, and while I love politics and study it a lot, I'd rather leave it at the door here. I need a vacation from red state blue state conflict! Don't try to convert me to a religious view. Don't act like you can do no wrong. Apologies can mend a lot of wounds. Be humble but not a doormat, be confident but not an asshole.
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
Because I will listen to you and care about you. Because I like to have fun and don't care about what is socially acceptable. Because I live by simple rules and don't let people tell me how to live. Because honesty, love, compassion and integrity are my gods. Because I love flirting and I'm a crazy exhibitionist. Because I like to be goofy and I appreciate goofiness in others.