Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
Still trying to figure that out. Until I get better guidance, just trying to live by the golden rule and treat others the way that I would like to be treated (which is gently - outside of the bedroom anyway...)
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
The Hubbs
The Kids
Running
Music
Books
Favorite Books:
A Separate Peace, The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy, The Screwtape Letters, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Keith Haring Diaries, The Alchemist, The Four Agreements
What I Like To Do For Fun:
Spend time alone, disconnected from social media.
Favorite Songs:
Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, Van Morrison, The White Stripes, Green Day, The Beatles, Queen, Mumford and Sons, Dermot Kennedy...I have fairly eclectic tastes. I will listen to almost anything, as long as I am not being screamed at. Language isn't really a barrier either; I connect with plenty of music where I have had absolutely no idea what was being said, but I could feel the meaning.
Favorite Movies:
Secretary, Pride and Prejudice, Stranger Than Fiction. I love horror movies - generally the campier the better! Always looking for new favorites, so please offer up some suggestions.
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
This! Lol.
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
Naked on a beach, drenched in oil, drink in hand.
Hobbies:
I like gardening and building things, taking road trips, eating all the food, drinking all the wine, listening to all the music.
Talents:
Plays piano poorly, but can read music Pretty good cook. Excellent at sucking dick! Sad I can't squirt
Perfect Mate:
I adore someone who can make me laugh. I have found my ideal primary partner in my mate, Hubbs. He is generally one of the only people that I routinely submit to. Generally I am switchy by nature (soft domme / bratty sub) and this definitely come out in our play & in my chatroom. In my lovers, I don't really have an 'ideal' - i appreciate a variety of different men. I guess though that I look for common characteristics. Even if I am submitting to them I need them to be kind. A good sense of humor is also important, if not required. As is an ability to not take themselves too seriously. So many nice things are ruined by people taking them too seriously.
Perfect Date:
I think this can very much be defendant on the person I would be having the date with.
Turn Ons/Offs:
Turn Ons: muscular forearms, people who know how to fix things, sense of humor, good taste in music, love of art, skills in the kitchen, skilled in the bedroom,
Turn Offs: chewing with your mouth open, clipping your nails in public, men with absolutely no body hair (un-naturally; alopecia is not a turn off).
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
I'm real.