Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
Finding moments of joy among the pain and the chaos.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
Cheese
Wine
Sex
Boobs
Coffee
Plants
Favorite Books:
Catch22
The Garden Awakening
Ender's Game
Dune
What I Like To Do For Fun:
Gardening
BDSM
Bondage
Shibari/rope bondage
Listen to Music
Play video games
Favorite Songs:
Tool
Nine Inch Nails
Arcade Fire
Radiohead
Beats Antique
Halsey
Favorite Movies:
I don't watch many movies, I'm more into TV because I like how much better characters can be developed over a TV series than a movie.
But some movies I have enjoyed watching over and over are:
Snatch
Fight Club
Contact
Get Out
Anything by Richard Linklater
Anything by West Anderson
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
Get married and divorced in the same year.
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
Denver, CO
Hobbies:
Photography
BDSM
Rope bondage/Shibari
Gardening
Talents:
Shibari
Photogaphy
Photo editing/retouching
Makeup artistry
Perfect Mate:
Good communicator who knows what they want and aren't afraid to ask for it. Doesn't take themselves too seriously, and cares about my pleasure as well as their own. Makes me smile and laugh.
Perfect Date:
A good meal that I didn't have to cook, a glass of good wine, and some rough sex that may or may not include bondage
Turn Ons/Offs:
My kinks include:
bondage (rope bondage especially, but I also like other methods of restraint such as plastic wrap, leather straps, duct tape, etc.), breath play, boot play, wet & messy/sploshing, bare handed spanking, caning, rough body play, primal play, hair pulling, cock worship, biting, spit and other body fluids, digging my nails into soft skin.
I also enjoy long, sloppy makeouts, dry humping & scissoring, bouncing boobs, and deep conversation.
My anti-kinks (in no particular order):
n no particular order...
Using inbox as a verb, people who tear others down out of jealousy or their own insecurities, arrogance, overconfidence, Doms/tops who don't value their subs/bottoms input or encourage them to speak their minds, gaslighting, victim blaming, people who can't admit when they've made a mistake, half-assed apologies, people who knowingly and willingly "take liberties" or ignore what has been negotiated, bottoms/subs that expect doms/tops to be mind readers, bottoms/subs that aren't willing to accept shared responsibility when things go wrong
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
I can be shy at first but once I open up, I will share all my passions with you if you'll let me.