Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
I don't think life has meaning other than any you assign to it. I'm working on doing as much good as possible while enjoying the journey.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
Greek yogurt, nudity, late nights, snuggly animals, delicious food.
Favorite Books:
Snow Crash, Harry Potter, Of Bees and Mist, and other science fiction, fantasy, and children's books.
What I Like To Do For Fun:
Honestly I 'do girly things'(masturbate) and binge watch netflix a lot. However, I'm a bit more nuanced than horny couch potato. I enjoy anything empowering! For me that can mean volunteering, taking care of someone, making something, making someone moan, doing something new, conquering a fear of mine, or showering anybody (human or nonhuman) with love.
Favorite Songs:
I got a bit of my taste from each of my parents and then a bit more from my peers. I like music that can be described as groovy. If I feel like it's infecting my body (whether it be with excitement, arousal, sadness, anger, etc) it probably has a place in my life!
Favorite Movies:
My favorite genres are capers, superhero movies, indie romantic comedies, and nature documentaries. I like TV more than movies though! I enjoy the time it affords to become attached to characters. I'm currently enjoying sense8.
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
I jilled off on a plane once. The passengers beside me were asleep.
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
I would love to be in Thailand feeding the elephants again.
Hobbies:
I go to a farmer's market every week and I love finding ways to use up the random quantities of produce I find good deals on. I'm always trying to make a healthier and more delicious muffin- I've recently perfected my zucchini chocolate recipe...perhaps you'll get the recipe or some baked by me if we become good friends.
Talents:
Making coffee, homemaking, picking out gifts, bedroom eyes, being a lady.
Perfect Mate:
I don't think I have one perfect person, but I'm in a very loving queer relationship that's always being redefined. I think I'll probably fall in love with several more people throughout my life: some as sex partners, some as life partners, some as best friends, some as lovers. I'll always find a place in my world for someone who earns it.
Perfect Date:
Getting a really incredibly delicious dinner then doing something spontaneous and silly interspersed with a lot of good kisses and fondling.
Turn Ons/Offs:
Offs: Aggressiveness, bossiness, playing games, not being willing to talk about feelings, messiness of home and body, meanness, closed-mindedness.
Ons: intelligence, nerdiness, wearing sweaters, gives good massages, makes me feel relaxed, is a feminist, is non-judgemental, likes animals.
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
I'm very good at finding the good in people. You'll love yourself even more once we're friends!