Though I am naturally romantic and a sweet talker, I am very assertive. I take control of situations without being asked and tackle challenges head-on. Most women like to gaslight a man, well I dont rattle easily. I dont play mind games. I take charge in a manner that encourages my lady to speak freely, ensuring a friendship where mutual respect, boundaries, and well-being are the point of emphasis and focus.

I dont take anything in my personal life too seriously. I have great friends and a solid group of people that I love. I feel like everything else will come organically. There are moments when people you thought were friends reveal a different side, showing their real colors. It hurts to realize some were never truly there for you but were hiding the fact they were using you for the benefits you gave them. That kind of loss is not really losing friends, its shedding those who didnt value you.

Real, friends ae willing to risk the friendship by telling you hard truths, not because they want to hurt you but because they care enough to say what you need to hear. If you truly intend to be a friend it doesnt matter if it in a fantasy world or real life, you respect each other and the friendship, you do not push them aside because you think you found something better. Respect, trust and love took time to build but it only takes a moment to be ruined.