Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
Living in the moment, and relishing it mindfully, because the present is all we have. But also, we have a responsibility to history, and must toil to create a better reality than what is offered. Question everything.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
my canon ae-1, my hori hori, my steel toe combat boots, plants, music
Favorite Books:
Ishmael by Daniel Quinn. The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran. Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer ...and other existential or environmentally themed texts
What I Like To Do For Fun:
I love visiting my friends and planning trips! When I'm not doing plant stuff of course, but there's usually a botanical garden trip tied in there somewhere
Favorite Songs:
my music taste is all over the place, but I mostly listen to indie rock. classic rock too, Led Zeppelin, The Doors, Van Morrison, Nick Drake... also queer club music like Shygirl and Cobrah
Favorite Movies:
Possession (1981), The Shining, The Lobster, Everything Everywhere All At Once, Midsommar, Hereditary, ...
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
got on the back of a motorcycle i flagged down in the middle of the street when i was drunk at 18 and hitched a ride to my dorm... that was fun haha
..took a ride with another motorcyclist right before evacuating a hurricane bc the roads where clear, rode fast and fucked on the beach ..i def think motorcycles are hot and want my own someday
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
in the forest with a lover, meandering and lollygagging. basking in the sun, reading to each other and sharing kisses between snacks
Hobbies:
My time is best spent touching plants, when I'm not touching myself ;) but really, I love gardening, outside and with indoor plants... exploring nature at any time of year is a fav past time. Otherwise when I'm inside I get crafty with various projects
Talents:
I try my best to be a good friend. Love to make people feel good; empathetic, funny, dark but light hearted, wanting the best for those around me... I feel like that's quite the talent in this day and age. Also plant identification.
Perfect Mate:
I don't believe in a perfect mate, and am polyamorous. The part of dating that I enjoy so much is getting to know people for who they are, instead of seeing if they fit into the box I have in mind. Leaving room for people to surprise me makes for hot connections too~ but really, emotional intelligence is a must haha
Perfect Date:
I'm from a small mountain town and have perfected the formula. In the daytime, I take you up to the mountains where there are trails we can hike on and get lost down. After we get tired of the views, we head down, grab a pizza, and go up to a secret local mountain spot to watch the sun set behind the rigged edges we were just frolicking on. Plenty of stolen kisses along the way ...as for a date I'd like someone to take /me/ on? hahaha I guess I'd just be happy if someone could romance me like I know I could for them
Turn Ons/Offs:
I get so turned on by intimate conversation, and building tensions.. partially why I enjoy making connections on here so much. Intelligent humble individuals who express it without being too egregious have my attention. Also, men with chest hair, holy hell it makes me melt... strong hands, and people who have good work ethic... and for women, any expression of kindness has me like putty in your palm
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
I genuinely am intrigued by interesting people and value connection, seduction, and intimacy