Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
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Five Things I Can't Live Without:
Mind-altering situations - naturally occurring, not chemically induced.
Connectivity - whether by personal interaction or via messaging
Chosen Family - The relationships that do actually support and feed emotional needs
Words and Language - Sort of self-explanatory
Opportunities for Improvement - Keep Moving Forward, Always.
I have fallen in love with the erotic romance genre. I devour books by Maya Banks, Bronwyn Green, Megan Hart, and others. I have read the dreaded "Fifty Shades" series and can only love it for its effect on the world - people are talking about sex, exploring their fantasies, and it inspired my own "Something Real" (available on Amazon!). I am also a fan of Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series.
I will always love the Rat Pack. Give me some Buble, Sinatra, Sammy, or Dean-o and I'm a happy girl. I listen mostly to pop music, but I've been known to like a country tune, some 90s-00s rock, classical, or showtunes. I will belt the hell out of Adele and Idina, then shake my ass for belly dance to Uskudara or Collide.
I'm a geek from multiple angles. I've always loved a good action flick and Marvel delivers. I haven't read the comics, but I'm enjoying the resurgence of good hero movies! I was raised on Star Wars and Streisand, Van Damme and the Von Trapps, musicals and Mad Max, Bond and Broadway. I can sit down with a Disney flick, romantic comedy, political drama or spy thriller. I have no one favorite, but I will remember the name of the actor from "that one movie we saw that one time".
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
This is probably pretty close, if not the craziest.
I left my full-time 9-to-5 in order to be a full-time online figure, through cams, writing, and my personal site.
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
I would choose London, I think. I'm sure it's an image projected by the media, but London and the surrounding areas in England have always seemed to me to be a destination that holds fashion, education, language, and poise to such a high standard. And the accents...
I love talking about sex. I'm fascinated by the psychology of it all, and have been labeled a leader in my local kink community for my tendency to talk about any of it with anyone. I teach and attend classes for that very purpose.
I enjoy performing. Whether it's dance, theatre, or public speaking, I like getting up to put on a show.
I read voraciously and write less often than I should. I'm a published author in the romance genre.
Vanilla talents, I dance, sing and write. I take pride in speaking well and have developed skill at it.
The fun ones, though... I have a talent for pleasing others. I like fulfilling fantasies and letting someone try things they've never done before. I have found pleasure in large toy insertions and I blush very prettily, so I'm told.
It's difficult to name a perfect mix of traits that would make the ideal partner, but I'll try.
My partners have to be okay with the idea of non-monogamy. As we evolve in a relationship, it's easy to become stagnate. Multiple partners, or relationships or outlets or whatever you choose to call them, make for a richer experience by allowing variety.
I do identify as submissive, so my partners are better on the dominant end of the scale. I am one of those uber-independent people, so the 24/7 lifestyle isn't for me. The level of dominance in them should reflect that - I will not be anyone's slave.
I like confident and pragmatic people. I'm not overly emotional nor do I get attached to people easily. I don't do flowers or the stereotypical "chick flick" style romance. I like humor and ambition, realism with a forward momentum, and hands... hands are my favorite.
I've had so many that were so different, I don't know exactly how to describe a perfect one anymore.
Something active - a walk, window shopping, a hike, a game, dancing
Food - It's always good to do food, but moreover if its something new, unique, or particularly enjoyable. Let's go get pie. Or sushi. Or pancakes.
Something to shine at - Are you impressive with karaoke? Do you bowl?
Something for laughter
My turn offs deal a lot with tolerance of others. If you are rude to waitstaff, impatient with the disadvantaged, or unwilling to empathize, I'm not interested.
Turn ons... hmm. I feel like I'm giving out secrets here - I like people who know what they want and how to ask for it. I like courtesy and chivalry and self-assuredness. And words. Words are my weakness.
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
You'll find something to love... whether it's physical or mental, there are so many ways to connect.