Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
To know there is a Creator, that this being has made known the way to know His+Her (both natures in one being) personally. To explore what it means to be part of the Kingdom of God and of Heaven. There is such a thing as clear right and wrong. If something hurts someone (actually takes even a little of their life away) in some way -- it is wrong.
Five Things I Can't Live Without:
1 The presence of God. Manifests when invited. 2 My personal relationship with God. It is possible. 3 Sex, with myself occasionally, I really desire marriage. 4 Female friendship that is not sexual. 5. Hate to say it, my cell phone.
Favorite Books:
The Bible, Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit,
The Pendragon Cycle (King Aurthur Trilogy) by Stephen Lawhead, Robin Hood the classic long version
What I Like To Do For Fun:
Drive my car. Amusement parks, especially roller coasters. A conversation or date with a pretty lady. Get out into nature hiking and camping. Golf - full and mini. Sex and love play with my wife when I was married. Go shopping if invited by a girl.
Favorite Songs:
Pharrell Williams - Happy, Berlin - Take My Breath Away, Bobby McFarren - Don't Worry Be Happy, Huey Lewis & the News - The Power of Love, Sheena Easton - For Your Eyes Only, Amy Grant - Lead Me On,
Helen H. Lemmel -Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus
Favorite Movies:
Ring of Bright Water,
Battleship,
The Tale of Despereaux,
Lord of the Rings,
Top Gun,
Sleepless in Seattle
Craziest Thing I've Ever Done:
Driving 100 mph on local rural roads, when I was a young man.
If I Could Be Anywhere Right Now:
Have a nice apartment or house closer to my kids (been divorced 12 years), and a nice wife by my side.
Hobbies:
Driving a car for fun (with spirit but still safe) on a winding road with beautiful scenery.
Photography. Simulation video and computer games -- racing, flying, sandbox. I had a pilot's licence once, back when I had money.
Talents:
Artistic. Mechanical Repair and Design.
Philosophical Thinking
Perfect Mate:
40 to 55 year old, kind mature woman, who had her mate leave her for someone else. Slender to full figure, still have a waist. Not picky about hair, skin, race, etc. Personality most important. Are you truly a kind and loyal soul, even when offended and angry.
Perfect Date:
Just go spend a day with her doing things she likes when completely free of obligations. Then go spend a day showing her what I like.
Turn Ons/Offs:
Turn on - maturity and character and good boundaries even in middle of intense pleasure. Turn off - hate most porn videos, the sex is way too wild, takes way too much energy, and looks painful. Turn on - Playing around, pleasuring each other.
Best Reason to Get to Know Me:
I love the line in Despereaux "I am a gentleman." I understand and want to help others learn the meaning and value of genuine love, kindness, compassion, wisdom, gentleness. I understand what good boundaries are, especially when there is disappointment or conflict.