About Me
Username:
QueenRafaela
CamScore:
1122
Gender:
Female
Sexual Preference:
Straight
About Me:
Ive always been completely, obnoxiously Dominant. Thats just who I am. The idea of submitting to someone else is so foreign and alien to me, its like my entire fucking soul recoils from it. And assertive, obnoxious, dominant-type men turn me off. It used to be that just sexual dominance and assertiveness turned me off. But as time goes on, that has more or less bled over into other areas, as well (and Im not implying that submissive men arent strong and assertive in their everyday life. They absolutely are.
I love a good mind-fuck. Especially when a sub is in that moment, where hes nice and overwhelmed, his senses overloaded, in the middle of being spanked or fucked, or just generally distracted. In that moment, I love asking complicated questions, trick questions, or anything hell have trouble answering. I love making him flustered, watching him get himself into trouble, and basically just talking himself into a corner. Thats awesome.
More than that, though, I love just getting into a boys head, making him doubt who and what he is, breaking him down completely and utterly, and building him back up. Thats such a rush.
Dominants like to be in charge. Some of us like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant only in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the top roles (giving pain/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
By the time I break a slave, I know him very intimately. I know his hopes, his dreams, his fears, his insecurities, his strengths and his weaknesses. I know what worries him, I know what frightens him, I know what he has trouble accepting about himself and about others. I know his faults, his demons, I know all of those little chinks in his armor.
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