Interests & Hobbies
Meaning of Life:
This is something I have struggled with for a long time. I think that the answer has nothing to do with whatever comes after (or doesn't) I think that enjoying the time we have is important. Living in the past or being afraid of the future steals the only thing that we have. Right Now. We always say 'When I lose weight', 'When I own that' or 'When this happens *I'll be happy*' it makes your happiness conditional, if that thing never happens does that mean you no longer have the right to be happy? All we have is right now, tomorrow gives no promises and the only thing we are doing by putting off our happiness is denying yourself happiness in the only moment that truly matters. Now.
Perfect Mate:
I believe that if you care about someone you don't need to change them, becoming one amorphous being with your mate changes both of you. It doesn't honor the person you fell in love with, it subsumes them. It deprives your beloved of the person they fell in love with. My perfect mate loves who I am as I am and true love is protecting and nurturing each other as individuals. I hope to meet that person some day.
Perfect Date:
Honestly as much as I love my movies (and I really do love them) I think it isn't the best way to get to know someone. I like dates where we can talk and connect. Share some common interests and do an activity.
Turn Ons/Offs:
Turn ons: Humor, generosity, kindness, I find that the ability to be kind is much harder than cruelty. I am a kinky person and and I'd love to talk all about my kinks on my channel.I like thinking about someone having my panties and doing naughty things to them.